eddie’s an asshole and a shitty manipulator, and the fact that he can just sit up on his high horse and laugh at someone being unnecessarily hate-mobbed is fucked up. i’m not blaming any minors or kids or w/e tied up in this. it’s almost as if just talking to people like a normal fucking human being solves issues! goddamn while i didn’t direct it at anyone in particular, i made an announcement to cut it out, and go figure, people actually listened! flaaffy appreciated the heads up, and she’s even actually improved how she presents herself and is seeking healthier outlets.
but you wanna know something wacky? there was an issue with people oversharing in my server’s vent channel. i don’t have the grounds to do so, and i wouldn’t do that anyways.Īs someone who’s friends with flaaffy, she’s not perfect. Let me also clarify that i am not accusing eddie of doing anything weird/law-breaking with this point. ive been off and on this site since 2011, and this is some juvenile shit. I’m really not a fan of eddie getting a bunch of kids rallying around him and witch-hunting someone on tumblr over personal beef. not everyone can interact appropriately without a few hiccups, especially with a mental illness on the table. and even then, we’re capable of fucking up. any sort of impression of flaaffy’s behaviors were taken out of context. i also booted him out of my server because of the aforementioned issues in ask-edd, as well as several testimonies about eddie (or so he claims ‘mike’) mistreating my friends in the past.īut going away from all that, eddie could very well be older than me or flaaffy. Yes, he got kicked out of ask-edd because he broke the rules multiple times. You can’t jump on flaaffy like a pack of wild dogs on them interacting with minors but then not the issue with eddie a) constantly interacting with minors, b) minors making callouts about flaaffy on eddie’s behalf and c) the fact that eddie can barely behave himself in discord servers that may or may not contain minors. Look, i’m not the pinnacle of morality, but i know a power imbalance when i see one. To put another point of reference, eddie (eddiemakesart) claims that their body is over 18. i don’t have an established relationship of any kind with them. There are a few occasions where one pops into my dms every now and again, but that’s all it is casual banter. other than that, i don’t talk to minors usually perhaps on a coworker-to-coworker basis would be a bit different.
it’s not that me as an adult can’t coexist with them as an adult, i can’t call myself ‘friends’ with someone that much younger than me. Sure, ive modded a server of 50/50 between adults and minors before. i dont go out of my way to talk to kids (by definition for clarity’s sake, 17 and under). most people i talk to are anywhere from 19-20 to as old as 30. as a reference, im 25 years old, clearly an adult. Look, i’m not saying flaaffy hasnt done ‘wrong’/questionable stuff before, but to condemn for her the actions that eddie also commits to. Hello, im gonna add my 50 cents that no one asked for, because apparently on tumblr, we say shit about stuff that has nothing to do with us without the slightest bit of tact behind itįor reference, im friends w flaaffy, but im going to stay away from my bias as much as i can